My friend, Mistress Wycked Kitten, writes about my favorite way to find myself:
“On your kneesâ€â€¦. WHEW! I love those words. FIH started a thread bout this at OD. And each time I see it bumped, it makes Me mmmmmm. That’ the good stuff.
I freaking love it when I strip My boys and have them kneel while stroking for Me. It is only better done BEFORE Me. MMMMMMMM good god. I like it for a couple different reasons. They kinda just roll into one another, so hang on…
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“On your kneesâ€, it also reminds Me of this rather hot fantasy, I entertain from time to time. Where I take a slave out all tagged and leashed, to the bondage night at this local bar. And he spends the evening at My feet, on his knees… maybe I instruct him to sniff when hot People walk by, maybe I let him rub through his pants, but I DEFINITELY serve him his drinks outa a bowl on the floor. I don’t think We’d stick out THAT much. (maybe this last paragraph belongs at EH?)
YUM… “On our kneesâ€â€¦.
Bound2Blog
Originally posted 2006-06-07 16:46:59. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Posted in By Dominant Women.
By polyfetishist
– May 17, 2010
Realizing that she could no longer hide from her dominant nature one woman had (I can hear Fred Astaire singing it) beginner’s luck:
By now I was in my 30′s and I was older and emboldened by my experiences. I started to Domme him online, writing a story about what I’d do to him and he’d sit at his computer, nude from the waist down. After I’d finished writing, I’d give him permission to masturbate. It was a very positive first experience and after months of this, I announced to him that I was wanted more, something in real time. I researched the local scene and found a play party that seemed to welcome single females. I was so nervous when I went to the store to get my ticket. There were some people there at the time. I met them and they were wonderful, answering all my questions. Having met them, I was more at ease about the party.
The night of the party, I marched right up to the door and into the place. As soon as I got through the door I thought “I gotta get out of here!” A guy with a platinum blonde pompadour bought me a drink and we made small talk. He was a sub and very pleasant but I could not settle down. I was so nervous, I never took off my coat. I nursed my drink thinking of a way to leave without being noticed – I felt stuck because I’d just gotten there. Thinking of an exit plan, I was about five minutes from walking out when the hostess introduced herself and struck up a conversation. She said she’d find someone to show me around. She returned with this gorgeous muscled thing on a leash and black leather. Upon seeing him, I thought several things at once: 1) Now that’s what I’m talking about! 2) Is he here with someone? 3) Screw it, he’s Mine Mine Mine!! 4) Hold on, I know him. It was like being hit by lightning.
Before that party, I’d last seen slavekal 25 years ago at the elementary school we both attended.
Catwoman’s Lair
Originally posted 2006-10-26 13:25:04. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Posted in By Dominant Women.
By polyfetishist
– May 17, 2010
Mistress Milliscent is one of the best-known, respected professional domininatrices around. There are several interviews with her on her site. Her answer to the second question is one well remembered by the men who make those claims:
Q: Describe your ideal submissive/client.
A: A communicative sub is perfect. I want a sub who is not afraid to share his limits, desires, and fantasies with me. The more I get to know about a potential sub, the better our eventual play will be.
Q: What irritates you?
A: Subs who say that they have no limits. Everyone has a limit.
Mistress Milliscent
Originally posted 2006-07-16 18:15:43. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Posted in Professional Dominatrices.
By polyfetishist
– May 17, 2010
Mistress Katja is a professional and lifestyle Domme. From her about page:
Although until recently I was in polyamorous relationships, including a 5-year live-in poly relationship, I am now in a semi-committed relationship with a dreamy young man named benjamin. (Note the lowercase b.) By semi-committed I mean that we are basically monogamous, except that as a Dominatrix my relationships with clients are often erotic in nature, although direct sexual contact is lacking. I also have a small number of personal submissives who serve Me outside of professional sessions, with whom I have an erotic connection and a friendship, although these relationships remain similarly non-sexual.
Amazon Dot Domme
Originally posted 2006-04-23 08:38:14. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Posted in Professional Dominatrices.
By polyfetishist
– May 17, 2010
A FLR / LFA community:
Some of you will have come here because of your fantasies. Or those websites with the leather wielding women in 5″ spike heels walking on some other lucky fella. We must tell you that if you are looking for that woman, you probably won’t find her here.
She Makes The Rules is a website OWNED and RUN by women who can be plenty kinky when the mood is upon them. In our daily lives we are professionals who have families and obligations. Generally speaking, we’re not all that fond of wearing 5″ spike heels after a long day at the office. We ARE the REAL women who live Female Led Relationships (FLRs) on a daily basis. We are NOT the women dressed in tight leathers who exist to make your fantasies come true (oh, and don’t forget to pay your fee when you leave the studio) kind of women. If you want real women who have come to understand their dominant natures, then this IS the place for you!
She Makes The Rules
Originally posted 2008-05-14 11:40:04. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Posted in F/m Forums.
By polyfetishist
– May 17, 2010
Lady Lubyanka’s blog was a happy discovery. She writes with depth and feeling. The sample excerpt comes from an entry on slave ownership. It should serve as warning to the “I’m worthless” guys who think presenting themselves that way appeals to a dominant woman.
This doesn’t work if it’s some stranger doing it, some new submissive whom I know nothing about, blindly and unthinkingly offering his worthless carcass for my use. That’s just icky. I can’t possibly enjoy the idea of what appears to me to be some random person, thinking so little of themselves that they are willing to sacrifice the pitiful being that they think they are, to somebody they have no idea about. It only works if a person knows and values themselves, knows and values me, and consciously decides that I’m a worthy person to offer themselves to for use as I please.
Lady Lubyanka
Originally posted 2007-07-29 07:14:21. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Posted in By Dominant Women.
By polyfetishist
– May 17, 2010
Goddess Peggy Sue writes of her twenty-eight years as a married dominant woman:
It was up to me to lead him into my version of domination.. ……… a version that was gentler and kinder and where punishment was only given when he disobeyed me and rewarded when he pleased me. I slowly weaved a web around him, until he was snared and helpless, by getting his consent for every step of my domination. Why? He was ready to give up submissiveness but I saw the potential of recreating him into my idea of a slave.
To call him a worm or a slug is repugnant to me as I believe that a slave or submissive is worthy of their servitude but this does not mean that he is equal with me………. ….NO it means that I look upon him as a man who can serve me.
No one can ever feel the power and pride I have inside me when I enter a room, alone or with company, and he immediately kneels and kisses my booted feet and gloved hands then keeps his head down until I tell him to look at me. The wonderful thing is that he does this not out of duty or obligation or fear but does obey and honour me out of devotion and love. These I feel are the main criteria for a slave emeritus which my Christopher is and for any slave for that matter.
Loving Femdom
Originally posted 2007-02-14 16:16:06. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Posted in By Dominant Women.
By polyfetishist
– May 17, 2010
She’s always fun to read. Recently she moved her blog to her own domain. Here’s a snippet from her About page:
I am a 30 something professional dominatrix located near Seattle Washington, deep in the heart of the Cascade Mountains. Female domination is both my avocation and my vocation, I can truly say that my life revolves around my dominance and I wouldn’t have it any other way. There is nothing I would rather be doing than standing over an obedient slave as he or she waits for my next command.
Mistress Milliscent
Originally posted 2008-06-05 11:45:51. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Posted in Professional Dominatrices.
By polyfetishist
– May 17, 2010
I can’t believe that I missed noting fd’s blog. I’d assume it was one of the first I would’ve listed her. fd writes lovingly and soberly about his life as a submissive househusband.
His most recent posts have been a series of what he calls Key Insights of a Successful Submissive. In the example below he writes about the psychological value of a tangible token of his status:
i have learned over the years that i needed something to remind me of my status that would be with me always. It need not be something like a chastity device or collar — although those certainly will do the trick! Something as simple as wearing non-macho panties, a permanent marking like a tattoo, shaving your underarms or genitalia, or being naked as much as possible will go a long way towards keeping a submale always in a submissive state of mind.
Her househusband’s life
Originally posted 2007-05-02 06:22:34. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Posted in By Submissive Men.
By polyfetishist
– May 17, 2010
