Masturbate the males cock until he is ready to orgasm. Before or when he has just started to orgasm take your hand off his cock and stop pleasuring him. This will limit the cum emitted by his balls as well minimize the pleasure he feels from the orgasm, leaving him frustrated. Basically, I was told it feels like his orgasm is declining before it starts.

The benefits of this style of handjob is that the male will feel a lack of satisfaction from his orgasm leaving him frustrated. The small depletion of sperm will often allow him to stay hard for more play or sex.

The Mistress Kate

Holistic FemDom, poly, bi, currently live with a female switch that I am teaching to top. I use D/s and SM play. I do not do extreme or edge play, although I do like pushing the pain/pleasure envelope. My hard limits are NO children, animals, scat, breath play, age play. My spirituality is integrated into my play as a belief sacred nature of sexual energy. I believe in the Goddess present in every woman and the men I play with respect the power of women and the Goddess within her. I use D/s to recognize aspects of myself that are continually engaged in power dynamics. I use SM and bondage as methods of altering consciousness, and providing a deep sense of surrender, release and transcendence. In addition to BDSM, I have friends, family, and work I love that are distinct and separate. While this is a part of my lifestyle, it is not my life. I am a published author, a teacher, a student, a healer, and a grandmother.

House of Willendorf

Originally posted 2006-06-27 17:31:39. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Mistress, Please! is the shared blog of Second Life citizens Zavijava Voom, Number13 Babii/Albemuth Dilweg. We are First Life partners exploring a whole new world of possibilities. We welcome comments and in world messages. Perhaps you will stop by our GLBT friendly home Frolix 8 sometime for a chat.

Mistress Z is a severe femdom when in role play but a kind hearted friend and good listener when not. New playmates can submit an application by asking for a notecard in world.

Number13 is a playfully cute, submissive woman who is enjoying exploring her boundaries. Mistress Z is willing to let her play with others within limits.

Albemuth is a neko slave boy owned by Mistress Z and an expression of Number13′s male side.

Originally posted 2007-08-15 13:38:56. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

While punishment, discipline and the submissive’s natural desire to please her Mistress all enhance obedience, training is a unique way to deepen obedience in that it can break down egotistic barriers that block the submissive from full engagement, it can create disincentives for behaviors that the Mistress wishes to extinguish, and it can also intensify the submissive’s trust and respect for her Mistress and her methods.

From The Dominant View

Originally posted 2007-08-14 11:38:53. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

I also have to take W’s feelings into account. It’s hard for her to grapple with the ways that spanking works for me. She wasn’t “into” spanking when we got together; she is often very uncomfortable with the role of disciplinarian. But neither of us would feel comfortable with me getting that need met by someone else, for many of the same reasons we struggle with figuring out what to do with the different parts of me. I mean, if a main reason we’re uncomfortable with spanking-as-discipline is that it’s too close to doing something sexual with a child, then going to someone else for a spanking is awfully close to infidelity.

And I often worry that the things I’m asking for aren’t fair, and that I should just learn to figure out other ways of coping. And, certainly, there is some of that in there. It’s not 100% W’s job to take on raising these kid-parts of me. But it’s not 100% not her job.

Breathing In and Breathing Out

Matriarchal concepts of politics and society come in many different flavors. Victoria Catherine expresses her gynocratic ideals with vigor and clarity:

Female supremacy is not however bdsm. Bdsm is primarily composed of physical activities. Female supremacy on the other hand is composed primarily of a spiritual belief system, sincerely held by those involved.

This is not to say that we don’t think males should be tied down and whipped, or used as a toilet, or be subjected to regular strap-on training. We do, and we take great delight in using males in such ways. We do believe that bdsm activities such as these may be, perhaps should be included in female supremacist relationships, but that such activities do not define female supremacy. Female Supremacist relationships operate primarily in the minds of the people involved and are defined by the belief system they share.

In our opinion these beliefs are:

That humanity is divided into two halves, the female and the male. That it is the females responsibility to control the male, and the males responsibility to obey the female. That the male is destined not only to serve his specific female authority figure, but to serve women in general. That the female should devote effort into ensuring that fellow women learn of their right to, and how to, command the male.

That by her very nature, at this point in human development, the female is destined to lead the male.

That by his very nature, at this point in human development, the male seeks to live under loving, but also absolute female authority.

That the male is most fulfilled when under the control of a female who exercises that control to the maximum extent possible, and selfishly seeks to have her needs and wants met without concerning herself over any discomfort her demands may cause the male.

That by being cruel and selfish the female brings the male joy and fulfillment. That females who do not exercise their inborn desires for selfishness and cruelty bring the male frustration and disappointment.

Gynosupremacy

An interview with a F/f Gorean Femdom couple whose relationship tales place in the virtual world of Second Life.

• Urizenus: is Toy collared?
• Toy: yes
• Urizenus: Did that happen immediately Maria?
• Mistress LaVeaux : As soon as she was given to me, I knew she was something very special…
• Mistress LaVeaux : Within a week of her being given to me, i offered, and she accepted my Collar. that was nearly 8 months ago.
• Mistress LaVeaux : something of a record I believe.
• Urizenus: Let’s back up a second, what does it mean to be collared?
• Mistress LaVeaux : toy and I talked about it,, and it was she who first delved deeply into it’s meaning…
• Mistress LaVeaux : For a Domme to Collar a sub is roughly analogous of a Vanilla Marriage with one very important difference…
• Mistress LaVeaux : A Marriage is an equal partnership,, when a sub is Collared, they are forever taking up a submissive position. Not equal at all….
• Mistress LaVeaux : (The main reason why I, personally, think it is an error for a Dom to Marry their sub.
• Toy: to this girl her collar is the most important thing in her life….. it has been called a bit like a marriage but toy feels it goes much deeper, its a total commitment, so many things are involved. loyalty, honor, trust, commitment……. a way to serve that has made this girl very happy
• Urizenus: Were you both students of Gor at the time of the collaring?
• Mistress LaVeaux : No.
• Mistress LaVeaux : I had heard of it before,, being a very stern Mistress by nature, people assumed I was Gor…
• Urizenus: When did you two discover Gor?
• Mistress LaVeaux : Within weeks…
• Urizenus: who found it first?
• Toy: toy read about it and talked to Mistress about if she could be allowed to learn more about it
• Mistress LaVeaux : I knew of it,, toy explored the writings out of curiosity, and we both decided to incorporate it as our life.
• Toy: and its not like.. finding Gor, its more of a discovery of what is inside oneself.

Interview with Gorean Mistress Maria LaVeaux and her slave, Toy