Who better to read when it comes to domestic discipline than Ms.MacComb?
One can not discount the multiple benefits of firm discipline and punishment while dealing with your errant or unmotivated husband or wife. I believe it can help clean the air between both of you, it will alleviate your sense of frustration, it may reduce guilt and be cathartic, it should increase willingness to follow directions and wishes to a letter. Of course this may be contingent upon your being able to maintain firm control and administer the necessary punishment.
I think that the mental portion of a punishment session is equal to the physical. Therefore with myself all sessions begin with a lengthy question and answer period, then a brief lecture by me, followed by a strict scolding and then the beginning of the actual physical punishment. Usually I feel that this entire process is better served if the person is either nude or at least with bare bottom exposed. This enhances the focus on the upcoming punishment, and adds greatly to the feeling of vulnerability. Make sure that they either stand or kneel in front of you, or for a portion can be over your lap. I think that direct eye contact for at least part of the lecture is very important.
After the scolding session is done, I usually start off with a good old fashioned over the lap bare bottom spanking. I have seen and heard about other women giving a “warm up” spanking which I absolutely do not agree with. I begin with very firm and hard slaps to the bottom and backs of thighs immediately. My intent is to get every thing to a nice red rosy glow and I usually continue with the scolding while in this position. After a bit I will switch to a hairbrush. I have a few different ones that I will use for different purposes, one is heavier and larger, the other a harder wood etc. I feel its best to rotate around a bit and make sure to pay special attention to the crease where thighs connect to bottom. This is a very sensitive yet safe place where the brush can be applied very soundly and get very good results. I feel that a discipline spanking should be just one “degree” below overwhelming. Lets face it ladies, most guys are physically stronger than us, and if you are not using restraints he could overpower you and remove himself from your lap. You want to keep it so that he is right at the threshold of wanting to “flee or escape” but under that level just enough so he can maintain his position and comportment.
After a long does of the hairbrush (I will often go into the hundreds, but I don’t count strokes or numbers) I will have him/her reposition themself for either a strapping , caning, cropping or switching. For these I either have them stand slightly leaning over a chair, or sofa, laying over a low stool or ottoman, or in the legs up position (or diaper position). Your objective is to have them positioned so that you have easy access to their bottom with no interference from chair arms, or chair backs, and good clearance to swing your chosen implement with no concern about hitting walls, lights or ceiling fans, fixtures etc. From this point I will usually “switch or rotate” implements. I will administer maybe 20 to 30 (again I don’t really count) with the cane, then switch to the crop, then strap and so on. For a more serious punishment session this could actually go on for quite some time. I often stop for a moment and will interrogate them about how their bottom feels, if they are learning anything, are truly sorry and so forth. On different days a certain implement can feel different to the recipient. I will usually ask them which one is hurting the most and causing the greatest discomfort and then apply an extra few dozen with that same one with extra vigor and enthusiasm. Remember, you are not trying to make this fun, you are trying to whip and spank the bottom till they learn and often until they cry. On those occasions where I do bring tears to the eyes, I certainly will not show leniency at this point. I will continue to administer the same punishment I was, that brought this on and will often escalate it’s severity. Keep in mind that a long punishment session such as this can often take a couple hours or more. In order to not have to repeat it every few days you want to make a lasting impression. If you spend at least a couple hours for the whole “production” meaning the scolding, spanking, lecturing etc, and are applying it soundly enough , you should only have to do it about once a month or so.
When you are done their bottom and the backs of upper thighs should be red, mottled, criss crossed with welts from your switches, belts, straps and canes. Within a day or so slight bruising will probably occur and should not be worried about. I prefer to not use heavy paddles for this very reason. While you can inflict great pain and suffering, and cause a great deal of visual damage this can be done with no lingering marks or any kind of damage. Lighter implements made of wood will get the job done but never do any kind of “deep tissue” bruising. Great care should be made to never hit any area around the lower spine or the tailbone. Before using a cane or long device you should check your distance to make sure the end or tip will not wrap around the hips. Also you should never hit the lower thighs. About two hands width below the crease area is fine, but lower than that on most people there is not enough muscle or padding to safely cover the connective tissues, ligaments, etc. You can slap the insides of the thighs with your hand or a light instrument and I will occasionally dedicate a whole punishment session to just the thighs and legs.
I believe that after every session he/she should spend some quality time in the corner. The humiliation of standing with sore red recently spanked bottom exposed and face in the corner is priceless. This would also be a good time to have one of your girlfriends drop in (meaning prearranged) for a quick cup of coffee. As he/she will not be allowed to turn around he/she will hear the two of you talking as if nothing unusual was occurring, except for perhaps a bit of laughing or certain comments made by her about his/her condition if you feel it will add to the effect.
Originally posted 2006-07-24 14:49:12. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
