I’d come to admire Sadiste from scattered comments she’d left on various blogs. It was only today that I discovered she has one of her own.
Here she deals with that eternal question: how should a submissive guy introduce himself to a dominant woman:
The ones I personally like best introduce themselves as people first, and as submissives/masochists second. This indicates to me that they (probably) realize that I am a person first, with a job and lots of vanilla friends and family that simply cannot know anything about the delicious pain noises that I cause you to make… at all. Ever. I need to know that you can pass in the vanilla world should I ever decide to introduce you to my family. And beyond that, I’m just not a very casual player; I need to know you before I know if I want to beat you. (Once upon a time I was more casual about my sex life. That was before I nearly fucked a Republican. Scary, huh?)
