Psyche writes very sweetly of beginning and learning the arts and skills of loving female domination:
He started by calling me Mistress, but to me ‘mistress’ had unpleasant overtones – it made me think of a woman wearing red fishnet stockings in the back seat of an MP’s car.
I decided ‘Lady’ was better. Cupid gave this his own spin, once I’d told him how I wanted to be addressed, and called me ‘My Lady’. Occasionally, he forgets and addresses me as Mistress. This gets him into big trouble. Who, I demand, is your mistress?
His name, insofar as he has one, is Boy. Usually ‘Bad Boy’, or to a third party, ‘My Boy’. To me, ‘Boy’ says sweet, post-adolescent but not quite grown up, carrying none of the baggage of adulthood and masculinity.
The use of words is more complicated. Talking dommy was the most difficult part of the process at first, and I used to plan out my words in my diary before playing a scene. I spent a lot of time trying to work out how to give orders without sounding negative. As I was very nervous about this, I worked it out in detail. …
Psyche and Cupid, or Domming From Scratch
Originally posted 2007-05-09 06:18:53. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
