No man writes more eloquently about male submission than aspirant:
These day there are many people in the scene for whom BDSM is an amusement or a diversion, something they do rather than something they are. For me it is a way of life. I am married to the woman who was my owner before she was my wife. I feel closest to her when she is most demanding of me and most “Right” when she is giving me some way to please her.
I have long believed that there are many good paths to that which is sacred. It took me many years of practising BDSM to realize that this could be one of them, and it the one that I have chosen for myself.


