Pinay Domina considers the distinction between beeing dominant and domineering:
Which word would best fit a domme?
I feel that I am dominant, I just don’t want to be domineering. I’ve been in a relationship where my ex BF was overbearing and domineering. He imposed a whole lot of rules that he himself couldn’t follow. I [...]
Mistress Katja is a professional and lifestyle Domme. From her about page:
Although until recently I was in polyamorous relationships, including a 5-year live-in poly relationship, I am now in a semi-committed relationship with a dreamy young man named benjamin. (Note the lowercase b.) By semi-committed I mean that we are basically monogamous, except that [...]
peajayess describes his Live Journal:
I try to write about the BDSM play I do, when I have permission to write publicly from all involved. Everything you read in my journal is a true, honest, non-fictional account of actual real-life play. It’s not made-up fantasy fiction. All people involved are consenting adults.
I feel it’s an important [...]
dwcmike sums up his marriage:
Spanked by my wife describes our 15 year active lifestyle.[ husband spanked ] Being a spankophile since a teenager, I evolved from dreaming the spanker role to living being spanked. Simply stated, she spanks me. All spankings are bare bottom, usually OTK [over the knee], with either bathbrush, hairbrush, wooden paddle [...]
pleaseletme sent me this description:
Blog of a beginner in female-led marriage; not sure where the journey will lead. i’m convinced of the rightness of loving female authority for me – is She?
And – from his blog:
Her gift of Loving Female Authority will unlock my potential, for which i will be forever grateful. Under [...]
An excerpt from Mira Stern extensive self-interview:
First of all, yes I have fetishes. Yes I enjoy SM. Yes I am a proud and earnest GIRL PERVERT. Sure, I will exploit you by using your fetishes in my favor, blah blah blah, but I’m not going to be as repulsed by them as someone who merely [...]
Disciplinarian writes about the importance of communication in a relationship incorporating domestic discipline and the value of a disciplinary journal.
I do require D. to keep a journal of his daily thoughts and actions. This was not something that we had to negotiate, and that’s because D. wanted to express his thoughts to me. I also [...]
MB_Operatrix gives the Freaks4Fetish mission statement:
Here, you are invited, even encouraged to open up and get familiar with yourself and other community members. This site has been conceived and developed firmly on the premise that there is no ONE right or wrong way to play/live with BDSM and all its offshoots. Sadly all too [...]
One of my favorite posts by her:
Would you let me take out my bad day on you? Would you let me work out my frustrations with a paddle on your precious skin? Would you let me yank your hair as I ride your dick raw? Would you let me use you like a blow-up doll [...]